Gaining

Damn Good Post. I agree 100%.
I have More than one really good friends on here that I hope will "Weigh In " with their feelings and thoughts on your theory.

I just posted something similar here:
fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.php

I seem to go up for a bit and then 'chicken out' at the point were it really becomes obvious I gained and even my largest clothes become really snug ... I wish I could just 'let go', but it never happens

I say anyone who dreams about this is a real feedee, even if they don't gain an ounce. (The same way someone can be gay without having gay sex.)

There are just "practicing" feedees and "non-practicing" feedees.

However, I admire any feedees brave enough to go ahead and really gain on purpose. Kudos to all of you!

I realize I didn't really address the question in my last post.

It seems in many cases it's more of a "slippery slope" than a "point of no return."

You start gaining and gradually realize that you love it more than you thought you would and that the downsides aren't as bad as you feared, and that losing weight is less and less of an option.

That seems pretty common, anyway. Of course there could be a moment where your realize that you have let go and are really getting as fat as you reasonably can. But that's more of a psychological point than a physical one.

Thanks for posting that gettingfatter and fat apple. Made me realise that I'm still young at 26 and I have plenty of time to figure out what I want. I will never be skinny as I want to enjoy life and good food, so we'll if I end up fat